A couple of days ago I shared my hurt feelings with my readers about a comment my husband made in regard to my new haircut, and in the process kind of threw Studly Doright under the bus. After all, on my blog it’s only my side of a story that gets told.
Studly Doright is a really good guy. He’s not perfect by any means, but he’s a decent man in every sense of the word (there’s a reason I call him Studly Doright). When I told him how I’d been hurt by his negative comment he was genuinely surprised that it had sounded so harsh to my ears, and apologized profusely.
He’d made the comment by phone after several long days of travel/work and I received the comment after several days of little sleep. That wasn’t a great communication construct. Once we were face to face the vibe was much better. A good night’s sleep didn’t hurt either.
I need to learn to recognize when my emotions are taking over my brain’s functioning. And I definitely need to resist throwing Studly under the bus. Thanks for all the advice, though. I gained some great insights through this process.
Peace, people.
Praying for Eyebrowz 
I can tell he is a good guy just by the way you speak about him. Everyone has sensitivities and poor timing happens. You didn’t say anything bad and I respect that you were able to talk about it together!
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Thank you!
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So call off Ernie, my kneecap specialist? I still have him at the ready for you.
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🤪 I think I can do without his services. For now.
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Consider the operation called off! 😉
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It’s always good to “know a guy”!
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We never doubted your love. But what did he think of it?
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