Do we get crankier as we get older, or could it be that we just do not care anymore what people think of us? Maybe that perceived crankiness is just a result of the wearing away of social constraints. Why am I even contemplating this?
I’ve been a fairly nice person most of my life, but I do have something of a temper. It’s something I try to work through, and I’ve gotten better at it through the years, but now as I approach my 62nd birthday I find that I’ve lost my ability to tolerate certain things.
Usually those things are large concepts, like racism and misogyny. I have zero tolerance for those who discriminate on the basis of race or gender, and I’ve been saddened to discover that some people I counted as friends over the years do both. I’ve gotten cranky with them, and in some cases they are no longer my friends.
Other times those things that make me cranky are little and local, like littering. One day last week I was behind a 40-something mother and her pre-teen son as they exited a convenience store in Tallahassee. Both of them had bought big gulp type sodas (huge cups) and were unwrapping their straws in the parking lot. I watched in horror as they tossed their straw wrappings on the ground.
Before they got into their car, I said, “Excuse me, I believe these belong here,” as I bent down and scooped up the wrappers, dramatically depositing them into a trash can that was literally two steps from them.
Now, the instant I said that I thought, “Oh crap, they’re both bigger than I am.” But I casually strolled to my car and drove away while they remained sitting in the parking lot. Who knows, maybe they learned something? Or maybe they took down my license plate and are plotting to take me down. But if they follow me to Doright Manor, I’ve got one thing to say, “Get off my lawn!”
Peace, people.
Couldn’t have said it better myself!
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I told my husband what I’d done. He couldn’t believe it.
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I’ve never understood how people can litter.
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It drives me crazy. And these were middle class types. Nice car. “My kid is an honor student at _____________ Middle School” bumper sticker.
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I don’t think you can judge a litterbug by their car. I’ve seen people in luxury sedans toss things out the window. The worst are lit cigarette butts.
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Isn’t that awful?!
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Good for you. I’ve noticed the opposite about myself as I’ve gotten older: I’m not as brave as I used to be. I think 10 years ago I definitely would have said something. Now I avoid conflict like the plague. – Marty
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I’ve become a righteous old biddy.
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Good for you. More of us need to stand up for what’s right so that apathy doesn’t take over
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As long as it doesn’t get me shot!
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Age, I think, reduces inhibitions. You’d scare me off your lawn
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