Forty-one years ago Studly Doright and I exchanged wedding vows in a small Baptist church in Dumas, Texas. We were young, dumb, and totally in love. We were also poor, a fact I didn't fully comprehend until I began counting the funds we had remaining after spending a quick honeymoon in the dubious luxury of the Camelot Inn in Amarillo, Texas.
We'd gotten married on July 30, 1976, and I remember turning to Studly on our 45 mile drive back to Dumas, Texas, and the rental home we'd signed a six month lease agreement on and saying, "This can't be right. We only have a hundred dollars left and you won't get paid again until the 15th."
Thus began my understanding that my life had changed forever. No longer was I under the financial protection of my mom and dad. I was now a partner in a brand new relationship that extended beyond romance and into the arena of money. I was woefully unprepared for this new reality.
Thankfully, Studly was barely more prepared than I had been. Did I mention how dumb we were? The difference between the two of us was that he never doubted his ability to provide. I worried, but he never did.
Somehow, we always managed to scrape enough money together to pay the rent and buy groceries.
Nowadays, the money isn't as tight. I still worry, though. Studly still doesn't. I guess that's the whole opposites attract theory in action. We've made it this far and that's no small feat. I think we'll shoot for at least another twenty years.
Peace, people.
Have a wonderful anniversary! You sure make a handsome couple. 🙂
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Thank you, Jan.
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Oh wow. What a great pair you make and I do love your post. I nearly died when I worked out the monthly outgoings. You know we have never had a penny since xxxx
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Love conquers all, right? Or at least some….
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well… xxx
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Happy Anniversary!
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Thank you!
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we were the same, lovely photos of the two of you, your happiness shines through
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Thanks!!
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Happy anniversary! My husband and I are both uber-frugal and super-savers. I think all successful couples just work things out in ways that work for them.
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